by PLAYER57832 on Fri Jun 27, 2008 10:49 pm
What's wrong with average? Because most people are just a bit egocentric and would really like to believe they are better than average.
Also, people come here for fun. Most want a positive experience. The old saying "you catch more bees with honey than salt" is true. AND the idea that you can create positive behavior by being positive ... is also true.
How do I rate?
Attendance gets a 5 unless you miss a turn ... if you apologize/give a reason, etc 3 or 2
no reason probably 2. If you "stomp off" when losing or deadbeat - 2, though if you pm'd me with an apology and decent reason, I would probably change it to a blank.
Similarly, if you miss more than one turn and one was definitely due to a CC issue and the other I don't know about ... 3
Fair Play -- mostly 4 or 5. ELSE:
If they try to take the whole board ... a 2 or 3
If I think they made a secret alliance -1
If they attack out of vengeance and not tactics - 2
If they try to lie to me -- 1 or 2;
If they go out of their way to help me, suggest tactics, etc.
(usually at the end or when it is down to 1v1) ... definitely a 5
If I play several nice games ... definitely a 5
If I have previously rated them lower and play again, I may up the score a "notch". But, someone to whom I gave all 1's is probably on my ignore list.
Attitude:
This is is the biggest for me. Folks getting a 1 or 2 are likely to end up on my ignore list.
If you say nothing ... either a 3 or leave blank the first time I play
If you say gl/hello probably a 4,
If I have played several games with you, especially if you have both won and lost ... a 5
If you had an unusually bad drop/bad luck and still kept an "upbeat" attitude -- 5
If you whine and complain (not joking, not tempered) -- 3 if not too bad, down to a 1
If you belittle and badger --1
If you use foul language -- 3 or 2 if quite bad
If you quit, suicide or "stomp off" when you think you are losing 2 or 1.
(if you have to go, say so and the game really is over, that is one thing ... but giving up when things turn slightly bad ... 1)
If you try to tell everyone else how to play or complain about other players ... 1,2 or 3
In most cases, there will be a combination of above factors (poor sports often swear for some reason, etc.) bringing the score down.
Overall ... nice manners across several games = 5 for attitude
Poor sportsmanship or bad manners -- much lower.