I started some games over a week ago and due to deadbeats and others taking 20 hours to make a play it seems that most of my 8 active games will still be active friday (even though I started signing up for freestyle games since I thought they would play faster

It's a pity there is no way to abandon games other than cause everyone to wait 3 turns until I'm booted.
I'm sure I'm not the only person that is in this position. So what is the solution not to play games 2-3 weeks before going away how do others deal with it?
Fact is most of the games would be nearly finished if we didn't have deadbeats

