Missing Turns Limit

I tried looking for this topic recently but didn't find it, so I apologze in advance if it's been here before.
I've been playing for a year but mostly between a group of people using private games. I've recently started playing more games at a time and have been getting into some public games. I'm in a game now with two people where one of the prople missed all three turns in a row and was kicked out and the other missed two turns and then placed his deferred amries in a spot to win. I've read why the board creators let people have deferred armies [to still give people an incentive to play if they miss a turn] and I can understand missing a turn once in a while, but how would you go about getting the rules changed from 3 missed turns and you're out to 2. I can see missing one turn, but when you got multiple people missing mupltiple turns, it's impossible to know how/where to play. Getting deferred armies after two turns is unfair and pretty much sucks for the rest. I know you can leave negetive feedback but there are so many new players that you end up losing games just finding out who the slackers are. Any thoughts on 2 misses and you're out???
I've been playing for a year but mostly between a group of people using private games. I've recently started playing more games at a time and have been getting into some public games. I'm in a game now with two people where one of the prople missed all three turns in a row and was kicked out and the other missed two turns and then placed his deferred amries in a spot to win. I've read why the board creators let people have deferred armies [to still give people an incentive to play if they miss a turn] and I can understand missing a turn once in a while, but how would you go about getting the rules changed from 3 missed turns and you're out to 2. I can see missing one turn, but when you got multiple people missing mupltiple turns, it's impossible to know how/where to play. Getting deferred armies after two turns is unfair and pretty much sucks for the rest. I know you can leave negetive feedback but there are so many new players that you end up losing games just finding out who the slackers are. Any thoughts on 2 misses and you're out???