Haggis_McMutton wrote:Here's an example.
Some of the most interesting discussions I've had is with a guy doing religious studies. Let's just say he's not very good at math or logic and doesn't exactly strike you as the "witty" type but his passion for eastern religions and philosophy by far trumps that.
Though he has huge knowledge in the area I found discussions with him initially frustrating because he would not sufficiently define terms for my liking. Half the time he said things that to me didn't convey any actual meaning. However, we persisted and eventually mostly reached a common language. I'm pretty sure that if I had declared myself "smarter" than him based on me likely having a higher IQ score that wouldn't have happened.
yeah, it wouldn't have happened if you had said "i'm smarter than you and therefore i'm right and arguing with you is a waste of time"
but even i don't do that... in fact, i hate it when people dismiss others without giving their reasons... this is why i like night strike and player, even though i disagree with them: they always make an effort to explain themselves.
and i love hearing perspectives from people who have totally different experiences and knowledge than i do (e.g. listening to BBS talk about economics or neo talk about biology). i recognize that i often don't have the factual knowledge necessary to compete, even if i can think critically.
but when people try to spread uninformed and illogical opinions about something that i actually know about... i lose respect for them. morality is one of those areas.
Haggis_McMutton wrote:j9b wrote:but i never said that nobody here has thought critically about morality. i just said that nobody has shown it to me. i'm doing what everybody else does- every time someone expresses a viewpoint contrary to mine, i believe that they don't know what they're talking about and that i've come to a better conclusion than they have. this is common behavior, so don't pretend like i'm unusually stuck-up.
Well sure, you can't claim perfect knowledge. But saying no one has shown to you that they have as much as thought critically about morality is still a damn strong statement.
Or do you not think it is possible for 2 people to think critically about morality and still reach different conclusions?
I don't know about others, but I generally don't assume everyone else has lesser reasoning ability because we can have different base assumptions. Different axioms if you want. Not to mention different life experiences.
I asked Player what her stance on god would be if one removed all her personal, subjective experiences that have led her to believe in god. She said she doesn't know and that she might have been an atheist. This is really all I can ask for. We've reduced the difference in opinion to different subjective experiences. There is nothing else to debate and neither of us should necessarily believe the other is wrong.
good point, but i disagree with the idea that the topics we talk about on here (namely politics and religion) need to be subjective. personal experiences, if anything, are an impediment to rational thought. if someone truly has a revelation from an event in their life, there's no reason why they can't explain to us why that experience shaped their viewpoint and should shape ours.
Haggis_McMutton wrote:j9b wrote:it's not "subjective" at all. i've talked extensively with a good amount of people about their moral views and seen that they have little to no rational basis for them.
And is your assessment of their rationale not subjective? Not even a tiny bit?
well... i'm a human, so of course it's at least a little bit subjective. but part of being a good thinker is (like i said above) removing the irrationality from our arguments. if somebody can't even do that (and this even applies to the "i've felt god in my life, so he must be real" people) then i'm gonna have a hard time taking them seriously.
Haggis_McMutton wrote:j9b wrote: i only decided to write that post because (like most people) i like it when people understand where i'm coming from, even if the odds of that happening are small.
Yeah, I get that. And I actually agree with your original point to some extent. Sometimes being an asshole is necessary. I'm just saying you should realize that:
1. You are actually fallible
2. This is exactly the type of thinking that lead to people like Hitchens and to a lesser extent Dawkins(both of whom I think you don't especially like) doing what they were/are doing.
smarter than most people != perfect

i don't approve of dawkins and hitchens being assholes, because i disagree with them. in my opinion, their failure to argue their views stronger than i can argue mine give me a right to criticize them, ESPECIALLY because their actions are very influential and can be damaging to society if they turn out to be incorrect.
on the contrary, someone like saxi (who is a HUGE asshole to certain people who disagree with him) mostly avoids my anger because i agree with him far more often. most of our disagreements stem from the fact that his moral values and rules are higher-level and more numerous than mine (e.g. he believes that you should not kill an extremely evil person because killing is wrong, and i believe that killing them might be okay if it ends up making more people happy in the end). sure, i may be more of a moral relativist than he is, but our disagreements on value theory don't translate into a sizable difference in our actions, so i tolerate him.
Haggis_McMutton wrote:j9b wrote:btw, i don't act like a smug bastard around people, but i'm honest enough to admit that that's only because i don't want people forming a negative opinion of me, and not because they don't need to be called out when they're being stupid or selfish.
Basically you are saying that you're acting selfishly, but people should still be ruthlessly called out for acting selfishly. Just not by you, cause that would be inconvenient.
This is the problem with double standards.
see above... my selfish actions don't affect others in a negative way, so that makes them fundamentally different from people who outwardly disrespect others. my selfishness in not acting like a smug bastard results in a net positive for everyone involved, so it's an acceptable form of selfishness. if someone cuts in front of me in line, that's an act of selfishness that affects others in a negative way. that's what i will call people out on.