patches70 wrote:Lootifer wrote:- I find it interesting that you don't care how another, with a culture very similar - with subtle differences - to you own, operates. Is that how you
really feel? Because I get involved in these discussions not to cause trouble or poke fun, but to genuinely get a better understanding of the world (not that you are a representative sample at the individual level, but you are mostly smart cookies and you do at least sometimes use facts etc

). This in turn shapes my outlook to a certain, limited*, extent.
Oh, I'm sure you've got a fabulous culture, rich in heritage and all the other platitudes. When I say I don't care, that's not to mean I look down upon your culture, I'm just not all that interested is all. Some people are interested in such things, others are not. It's no big deal.
There are all kinds of cultures out there. Just because they are out there doesn't make them interesting or admirable. I believe there are cultures out there that promote clitoral mutilation, bondage, slavery and all kinds of other nasty (from my POV) habits that I really have zero interest in learning more about for none other than the simple fact it will just disgust me.
Not saying your culture goes anywhere near that you understand. I'm just not a blind follower of multi culturalism. It's over rated IMO.
If I by chance ever visit your country, I'm sure I'd have a good time and get along just fine. And I'd learn what I needed to learn.
Now let's see, what do I know about New Zealand culture? You guys like sheep, agriculture I think. Got a nice amount of wild life (which is cool in my book). I guess you are part of the Queen's Empire or whatever it is that's called. Your navy ships are like HMS this or that? I dunno, I guess you live like you want to live, which is all I really need to know I guess.
I remember, a year or so ago, an Australian teenager sailed around the world. On another forum an Australian member of the forum went and made a post about the trip. It was a great source of national pride for him and the land of Oz, was my impression.
Well, a few of my countrymen couldn't help themselves, began criticizing the teen. Said she was stupid, what were her parents thinking, I mean it was pretty bad.
I couldn't help myself. I had to step in and remind my fellow American forum members that this girl was Australian, they look at the world differently. I stated that for my part I was proud of the young woman and that I hoped my own daughter would have as much courage, skill and confidence in herself that she could do such a thing. It would make me proud as well, despite the dangers.
This forum member later thanked me, told me how pissed he'd gotten at some of the responses from my countrymen. They were assholes I told him. Don't hold it against all of us Americans.
Now, I may not go out and actively explore other cultures as some other people might think I should, but dang if I can tell if something is a good thing or not, despite whatever culture it comes from.
I think that serves me well enough, and if not, I don't give a rat's ass! Haha, not being disrespectful there at the end, you said you don't understand my culture and it doesn't even occur to me to try and explain it to you. If you want to understand you will. If you can't understand it, I'm not going to offer any insights. If you can't figure out that American's aren't gun toting racist maniacs who live for nothing more than to gun someone or some minority down in the street, then nothing I can say will convince you.
We aren't as bad as you may think we are. Not anywhere close. Americans, the vast majority, just want to live in peace, raise our families as we see fit and make a living. Pretty much like everyone else in the world.