tkr4lf wrote:I should clarify my position.
We should try to pronounce the names as they are intended, to the best of our abilities. If it's a matter of the sound being foreign to our language, then it's understandable that we cannot pronounce the name exactly the correct way.
As for somebody deciding that they want to pronounce it differently, I'm fine with that as well. Or a city, or street, or whatever. For instance, there is a road here in Austin called Manchaca Road. It's pronounced like Manchack.
It's when people (and I find Americans do this quite often, hence the Americanized bit earlier) do this for others that bothers me. Like my Nietzche example. I'm sure there are others. For some reason, the examples I can think of tend to involve German names and Americans trying to pronounce them and ending up bastardizing them. It's probably just ignorance, but I still find it annoying.
I would agree with this.
However, there can be a fine line there. Expecting people to "corrrectly" pronounce a name that they plain cannot is rather arrogant. Some people try to cover their inability up by just not really trying -- or making a joke of their mispronounciation.
I dislike the "correct" pronounciation of a town here in PA -- Dubois. In the French, it would be pronounced something like "De-bwa" (yes, I can say it.. just don't know how to write the French pronounciation

). Anyway, people from there and surrounds pronounce it "Doo-boys".
as a slightly humerous aside, a local barber's is Italien, Ritigliano. My then 4 year old wound up calling him "Mr Rigatoni". We all, including the barber got a good laugh. "not bad for a young fella" was the Barber's comment. Of course, we do gently correct him -- and my son does have pronounciation issues (is in speech therapy). A LOT of this comes down to just plain manners and attitude. I don't think anyone really gets upset if someone is obvious trying to pronounce a name correctly and just cannot get it right, even if they cover their embarrassment with humor or such.