by _sabotage_ on Mon Jan 14, 2013 3:18 pm
Cornpops;
I have lived in China for 7 years and spent a lot of time there since the late 90s.
First, I was talking about the benefits of a command structure. The benefit I maintained was that a command structure can act quickly.
My wife has three sisters and a brother. They live in Guangzhou, Dongguan, Beijing and Shanghai. Within a year of graduation, the youngest, the brother, was able to send money back to his hometown in Hunan. This money isn't needed by his parents, in fact they store it up to give back to their children as part of their inheritance. In most places, there are plenty of jobs and if someone can't find one, it's socially acceptable to return to the family home if not ideal.
If you believe that 1.4 billion people can be or even should be compared to the US, the comparison I was making, then please take that point of view. I believe that one of China's greatest strengths is that they can use leapfrog technology and bypass a lot of the cost of joining in a modern world and providing up to date benefits that excede those provided by countries who were industrialized prior to China and have a lot of existing infrastructure and built up interest which impedes this.
In many ways, the social structure of the Chinese family (and by the way I speak both Cantonese and Mandarin and 家人 means family member, not family) does have advantages and disadvantages, one of the disadvantages that you have pointed out is that marriage is also a family based decision often focusing on the ability of the couple to provide for their own family unit, which greatly disadvantages males from poor families. So when my third sister-in-law got married and decided to buy an apartment in Shanghai, her husbands family and ours pitched in the amount above their savings (their savings amounted to about 25% of the purchase price) and they were able to buy it outright. I disagreed with this, thinking that buying it on mortgage and using the other money for investments made more sense, but I was ignored and they have a place in Shanghai paid for.
I'm getting my information from running a not for profit training centre in which I held daily discussions with people from a variety of sectors and economic backgrounds who in turn have family's and are usually well aware of their own circumstances and those of others around them. I have had to bribe the government and deal with the housing and other problems for more than twenty staff including seven foreigners.
You bring up many points. I could counter them with examples from the US regarding the divorce rate, lack of family unit, price of education and healthcare. But...
My question for you is: you say you are not Chinese, are you living in China? And if so, why? And if no, where are you getting your information from?