Phatscotty wrote:One belief is that there is a difference between the sexes and a purpose for the sexes. Another belief is that there is no difference between the sexes and gender does not matter. That's what it all comes down to. If we say sex doesn't matter, then it doesn't matter for anything. Boys are going to be playing on girls junior high basketball teams, boys are going to be playing on girls high school hockey teams, men are going to be playing on women college volleyball teams. That's why the issue of marriage was so important. The redefinition dictated to everyone that sex does not matter. The people of Kansas say it does matter.
Sex is connected to everything. Entertainment, advertising, human interaction and life in general. Marriage and sex is that odd mix of do as I say, but not as I do. Moral doctrines say get married before sex, even though people with those same values consider guys as studs and women as sluts who have pre-marital intercourse.
Government has complicated marriage by requiring licenses, attaching inheritance, health benefits and many basic human rights to it. Gay couples regardless of how long they've been together are denied those same rights accorded --and taken for granted by-- married couples.
The sanctity of marriage as described by many bible thumpers isn't so sacred in the United States as more than half end in divorce. Gay rights isn't about flaunting or promoting homosexual preferences. It isn't even about accepting people being attracted to the same gender, but it is about tolerance, justice and equal rights for all and not just the privileged group who measure up to certain social standards considereed normal.