chang50 wrote:Phatscotty wrote:chang50 wrote:The answer of course is for American society to evolve to a point where people generally don't take all this religious speculation/belief too seriously.I present to you the good ole inoffensive Church of England (at least in Britain),very efficient at match,batch and despatch and other social occasions,largely hovers in the background of progressive secular society,and is generally loved like a kindly unobtrusive,slightly old-fashioned old aunt.
eh... the same could be said about the homosexual couple not taking their cake so seriously? Oh, the same is harsh when it flipped over huh? I wonder if you would pick the right to have your cake the way you want it as more important than the right to practice and live your religion. I have a better idea. How about evolving to a standard that does not mean someone is sued every time someone is offended that another does not embrace their religion or sexual orientation? Ya know, live and let live? I mean hey, really the couple could have just gotten whatever cake they wanted, kept their lifestyle to themselves the same way the cake maker is expected to keep his lifestyle to himself and not start demanding others are forced to accommodate him, and then just walked over 1 aisle, purchased 2 female bride figures to top the cake, and then put them on the cake themselves, right in front of the baker? I am free to live my life, you are free to live yours, and you tolerate my religious beliefs and that I won't do something against my religion, and I tolerate your lifestyle and don't come to your work and push my lifestyle on you or anything that goes against your orientation, because what you do is your business, and what I do is my business. Deal? Instead we are devolving ever faster in the opposite direction.
Actually you picked an example where I agree,a baker should be able to refuse any potential customer for any or no reason at all.If I can continue the wishful thinking of my first post..wouldn't it be great if such a baker went out of business because his stated reasons revolted so many.That would be progress IMHO.
Well, that would be the free market speaking, and yes, I support that totally, although a business owner standing on his religious conviction and his first amendment rights, even in this situation, probably isn't very 'revolting' It can be abused either way you look at it, by the couple trying to get even and make a stupid religious person serve them against his will and laugh about it forever more... I'm sure there are plenty of situation we nor anyone has ever thought about, but yes that's the beauty of the free market system, if you don't like that business you don't go to that business. Having the Freedom of speech, you can urge others not to go to that business provided you don't violate the bakers rights by standing in his doorway and not letting anyone enter. But that touches the very heart of the main concern I raise. Freedom of Speech and Freedom of Religion are both part of the same Freedom and the same 1st Amendment. You can't have Freedom of either one without the other one, that's why we must defend the rights even of people we disagree with and we should all be united, because if we let one groups rights be violated,
or even if we create special rights for certain groups, it sets a precedent that it's only a matter of time before it comes back to us to violate another groups rights. And that;s also the importance of individual rights, as the individual by far is the supreme essence of a minority, as they are all by themselves. And Freedom of Speech and Religion is not at all for popular speech or popular religion, as that does not need protecting. It's for unpopular and controversial speech and religion that needs protecting the most, and where all American who value their Freedom should be uniting. Unfortunately, many Americans are all 'Meh, I am not religious, but I know a gay person' and they laugh about Christians who are openly discriminated against and it's not the gay clubs that are getting vandalized anymore, it's the churches that are getting vandalized. the imagery Americans still have is that gays are persecuted and chained up behind trucks and dragged to death and that churches is where boys gets molested and hypocrisy rules, when in reality there have been more Hispanics trying to run jump the fence in the last month than there have been major hate crimes involving any kind of murder against gays in many years. And I'm not talking about the hate crime of calling someone a mean name. Anyone who is trying to look that up right now, the fact that none have come to your mind along with the fact you know the media would be reporting on it for weeks, you should already know it's true. For instance, many people reading this are thinking 'Matthew Shepard" right now, but very few realize that the truth is he was not killed because he was gay, the truth is he jacked someone for their meth and was only slightly bisexual, maybe not at all and just did stuff with other males for the drugs as is common with drug addicts. we truly are being divided more and more, whether we know it or not, and it's almost always emotional.
I would really have to dig, since I tried to debate the gender/marriage issue from every single angle (even ones I did not feel strongly about) and the bigger government angle was definitely one of them. Surely the baker should be able to refuse, if it truly is a free country anyways, you should be able to refuse someone for looking at you funny. That might suck, but I bet people would pay more attention to mind their manners in public around others and be on good behavior mode! not necc a bad thing. But, because of laws that address race, creed, orientation, (thought religion was in there somewhere?) it seems we are trying to make things more equal by making laws that have to operate on the premise we are not equal and one is less than another so special treatment is the law. I have a new story here on affirmative action that happens to me on a daily basis I am saving for the right time and another thread. And the laws will apply to more and more products, places, groups, people as the government is passing about 20,000 new laws and regulations every year. Look at how our government ended up taking over marriage, just because it basis some of the tax code on it? Well that can happen with anything, and the way the government is growing it's just a matter of time before another thing I warned would happen, and that is the obvious eventuality that one day the government will be so big and powerful that the only area you will be free to practice your religion will be a few approved buildings and only on certain days and at certain times, and that is religion being forced into the closet, which means there really is no freedom of religion, which means it's impossible for there to be any freedom of Speech. and that's what makes this entire issue a direct attack. Unfortunately, I'm expecting most people will not make the link how this relates to the first amendment that exact same way many people did not fully realize that setting the standard 'gender does not matter' in fact means just what it says, but in all areas, even to the point of men fighting in the Female full martial artists league. Hell of a story here I'll get around to sharing it
I don't think he went out of business, but many other bakers, florists, choirs, orphanages, faith based groups doing charity and food for poor people programs and other specific businesses have, and soon it will likely include at least a chapel or two. This particular baker we are talking about has been forced into re-education, literally. He also has a big-brother watching over everything he does, he has to fill out weekly, monthly, and bi-annually forms documenting all perceived 'discrimination' and how he dealt with it, as well as a lot of money in fines. Literally, as I predicted, this is leading up to the government forcing Christians to go to the church, carry the christian inside the church, stand behind the christian and force their eyes open, and make them participate in gay weddings. It won't be like that tho, they'll just fine people who don't do it until they give up and put their religion in the closet or go out of business.

I envision the possibility of one couple who really is bigoted against Christians, who are just assholes that just exists and they do of all groups, but this one hypothetical couple will walk into a Christian photo-shop and demand some photos be taken of their upside down cross covered in fecal matter. Well, the christian 'must endorse all views' so he has to take the photo or else go out of business/face fines/even go to jail, so he takes the photo and the couple says 'wait, that's not good enough, the picture needs to be taken from 6 inches in front of the fecal matter covered upside down cross' so they demand a retake, and then that's not good enough, so they say 'wait, almost, but its gotta be 5 inches' and on and on down to 1 inch, at which point the assholes 'accidentally bump into the Christian' and the guy has been abused to the point, all sanctioned by special rights enforced by the government, that he has their shit on his equipment and on himself and listens to them laugh about it and record it as he starts to cry. Really? Is this Freedom? 'must endorse all views?'
The ruling that went against him was thus 'All artists must endorse ALL views' Therefore, nobody can refuse anybody. I'm still waiting for something like this to happen at a Mosque or a halal meat shop or bakery. We all know homosexuality trumps Christianity every time in that there is no freedom of religion, well, freedom to keep your religion in the closet, but I would bet ya anything our current government and other local governments would have a double standard and side with a bakery run my Muslims if they didn't want to bake the cake on religious grounds. It's already been ruled that Muslim cab-drivers can legally discriminate against blind people who need rides if they have a seeing-eye dog, based on their religious freedom not to have to violate their religion. I'm even seeing in more and more schools that special prayer places and times are being made so that Muslims can pray in school. Public schools are more and more teaching Islam as a religion of peace to young children and learning that religion in general. Yet as much as I pay attention on the issue, not a soul has been crying 'Separation of Church and state!' This is where those who have ever said it in the past should be saying it the loudest right now. All this, now that it's clear, is what I have meant in the past that discrimination and racism and bigotry are looked down on EXCEPT when it's a white Christian male heterosexual. I have a great story about a convo I had with a doctor last week where I froze him in his tracks, but saving that for another thread. You guys are lucky that the puppy love faze with me and my gal is wearing off

It is interesting to note that the best back n forths on this topic I have had with people who are not American. Kinda shows we where we are on knowing our rights/standing for our rights. My goal here is to lift the veil and work together with others so we can all see what is really going on. Most people think that since the government did not come right out with guns blaring saying 'there is no freedom of religion anymore, and no freedom of speech' that means we are still free in those ways, but that's not how the reality works. The reality of how we are losing these freedoms here is between the lines. we have to know how the courts work, we have to know the adendas, we have to know past vote results, outcomes, and rulings. I could see this all coming a mile away. I'm not doing this to throw it in people's faces and told ya so people, I'm doing this hopefully so we can learn together and and maybe people now will say 'ya know what maybe Phats was onto something, maybe i will participate and listen and speak more clearly and keep my mind more open and not be so quick to judge this time' so maybe one day in the future we can stop being blindsided repeatedly through emotional manipulation and repetitive propaganda
So, regardless of what we might think about all this, the reality is here. I finish what I start, especially when I was right all along. I've sacrificed a lot in reputation and even lost a few friends who apparently believe if I don't agree with them about something they have barely looked into and solely judged on emotion, then they can write me off and i don't deserve tolerance, which is a bit ironic. I realize what I risk, but that's what I accept by not caring what people think, and only focusing on truth. blame is easy, truth is much harder. And I'll end with this, one of my favorite quotes
"tolerance of others is the price we pay for others tolerating ourselves." I think this is what we were originally striving for changers, but unfortunately right now it's 'you MUST tolerate, accept, even celebrate xyz special minority status, and if you do not you will go to jail/we'll put out of business/sue you, and don't even try that 1st amendment bullshit!"