Cyber Flirting - a guide for men
Posted: Sun Nov 30, 2008 6:41 amYes, all the women here have, at one time or another, been 'approached' (for want of a better word) by you lovely gentleman in the hopes of engaging in a little online flirting.
It's hard enough to engage successfully with the opposite sex in real life, so perhaps a little advice and a few tips might make the transaction from friendship to something slightly more 'meaningful' (again words fail me) a little smoother.
So guys, you've seen the avi, you've read a few cute posts here and there and you want to get to know this girl a little better...what do you do?
Well....
Flirting is a fun! It requires immense talent and creativity. If you want to enjoy it then apply the given below techniques.
-Fun is always the key factor while flirting. You must be playful, spontaneous and humorous.
-Frequent compliments are great way of flirting. But, it would be advisable to be honest and sincere while complimenting the person.
-If you want to begin the conversation then a small hi or hello would be adequate.
-Try to be good listener. It is a great art to listen others. This art will make you more likeable and charming.
-Your attitude must be positive. Enthusiasm is another great factor while flirting.
-If you want to be a great flirt then always approach first. You must be the first person to say hi.
-Props are great way to begin a conversation. This would also enhance the conversation. For instance, start your conversation with dogs, jewellery, perfume etc.
If you want to retain her interest, know her better and what she likes, don’t try to express your interests, hobbies and preferences all at once. She may think you are only trying to advertise yourself to her.Learn some pick up lines and keep dropping them whenever you chance a scope. Keep it mind that you do not go over board while doing so.
Here are some pick up lines which you can use while conversing with your amorous interest:
Pick up no 1: Are we related anyway? Do you want to be?
Pick up no 2: Baby, you must be a broom, for you have just swept me off my feet.
Pick up no 3: Is it the sun which came out or you just smiled?
Pick up no 4: I feel like Richard Gere, I want to be standing next to you, the Pretty Woman.
How to tell if she's interested
If she laughs in agreement with you.
If she singles you out on a big crowded forum or chat and talks only to you
Women can be extremely playful when it comes to flirting.
Follow up so you've got the girl's interest - how do you keep her?
poetry is key
e.g
My Pretty Rose Tree
A flower was offered to me:
Such a flower as May never bore.
But I said "I've a Pretty Rose-tree",
And I passed the sweet flower o'er.
Then I went to my Pretty Rose-tree:
To tend her by day and by night.
But my Rose turn'd away with jealousy:
And her thorns were my only delight.
Leave her cute messages in her inbox:
e.g.
-I may be innocent to know what love is; I may not show it to you. I may not love you the way it should be, but I’m always willing to love u the way i understand it ((LOVE U ALWAYZ))
-When it rains.. u dont c da sun.. but its there.. hope we kan b lyk dat .. we dont c each ada but we´l always b der 4 each oda.
-Not everything dat counts is counted and not everything dat counted count. I didn't count how many times I thought of u, but what counts is dat I did.
-The smallest word is I, the sweetest word is Love and the dearest person in the world is you. That’s why I Love You
-When a situation gets u down, remember there's someone in Heaven who loves u and watches over u and there's someone on Earth who cares. I do.
-Sometimes the world gives me so many reasons to hate it...but whenever it happens.... I just stop and think of u n say, "How can I hate this world when you are a part of.
-Look left look right Look back I am not there Look into ur heart U will find me there in form of sweet memories.
This is by no means a comprehensive guide, but it's a start. If you have any of your own tips to add, please go ahead.
I hope it has been of help.
Good luck finding your cyber love.
xx
next week's instalment - 'Cyber Sex, the dos and don'ts'.
It's hard enough to engage successfully with the opposite sex in real life, so perhaps a little advice and a few tips might make the transaction from friendship to something slightly more 'meaningful' (again words fail me) a little smoother.
So guys, you've seen the avi, you've read a few cute posts here and there and you want to get to know this girl a little better...what do you do?
Well....
Flirting is a fun! It requires immense talent and creativity. If you want to enjoy it then apply the given below techniques.
-Fun is always the key factor while flirting. You must be playful, spontaneous and humorous.
-Frequent compliments are great way of flirting. But, it would be advisable to be honest and sincere while complimenting the person.
-If you want to begin the conversation then a small hi or hello would be adequate.
-Try to be good listener. It is a great art to listen others. This art will make you more likeable and charming.
-Your attitude must be positive. Enthusiasm is another great factor while flirting.
-If you want to be a great flirt then always approach first. You must be the first person to say hi.
-Props are great way to begin a conversation. This would also enhance the conversation. For instance, start your conversation with dogs, jewellery, perfume etc.
If you want to retain her interest, know her better and what she likes, don’t try to express your interests, hobbies and preferences all at once. She may think you are only trying to advertise yourself to her.Learn some pick up lines and keep dropping them whenever you chance a scope. Keep it mind that you do not go over board while doing so.
Here are some pick up lines which you can use while conversing with your amorous interest:
Pick up no 1: Are we related anyway? Do you want to be?
Pick up no 2: Baby, you must be a broom, for you have just swept me off my feet.
Pick up no 3: Is it the sun which came out or you just smiled?
Pick up no 4: I feel like Richard Gere, I want to be standing next to you, the Pretty Woman.
How to tell if she's interested
If she laughs in agreement with you.
If she singles you out on a big crowded forum or chat and talks only to you
Women can be extremely playful when it comes to flirting.
Follow up so you've got the girl's interest - how do you keep her?
poetry is key
e.g
My Pretty Rose Tree
A flower was offered to me:
Such a flower as May never bore.
But I said "I've a Pretty Rose-tree",
And I passed the sweet flower o'er.
Then I went to my Pretty Rose-tree:
To tend her by day and by night.
But my Rose turn'd away with jealousy:
And her thorns were my only delight.
Leave her cute messages in her inbox:
e.g.
-I may be innocent to know what love is; I may not show it to you. I may not love you the way it should be, but I’m always willing to love u the way i understand it ((LOVE U ALWAYZ))
-When it rains.. u dont c da sun.. but its there.. hope we kan b lyk dat .. we dont c each ada but we´l always b der 4 each oda.
-Not everything dat counts is counted and not everything dat counted count. I didn't count how many times I thought of u, but what counts is dat I did.
-The smallest word is I, the sweetest word is Love and the dearest person in the world is you. That’s why I Love You
-When a situation gets u down, remember there's someone in Heaven who loves u and watches over u and there's someone on Earth who cares. I do.
-Sometimes the world gives me so many reasons to hate it...but whenever it happens.... I just stop and think of u n say, "How can I hate this world when you are a part of.
-Look left look right Look back I am not there Look into ur heart U will find me there in form of sweet memories.
This is by no means a comprehensive guide, but it's a start. If you have any of your own tips to add, please go ahead.
I hope it has been of help.
Good luck finding your cyber love.
xx
next week's instalment - 'Cyber Sex, the dos and don'ts'.
On the bright side, you seem like a nice person.