Metsfanmax wrote:Symmetry wrote:Metsfanmax wrote:Symmetry wrote:saxitoxin wrote:If Jefferson had sex with a slave, I agree with Symm, that sex was rape. Non-compliant slaves faced punishment so clearly Hemming had sex under duress (compulsion by threat or force) even if there was no overt threat made by Jefferson. The relationship was supposedly consummated in France, where slavery was legal, so the possibility of escape or flight by Hemming would not have been a realistic one.
Simple stuff really.
So if Thomas Jefferson made her dinner one night, would that count as force-feeding?
I would say that you missed the point on this one, but really, it would be more interesting for me to ask you to elaborate. So. please elaborate on your point.
My point is that the logical conclusion of your argument is that because she is a slave, every action she takes is by construction forced, whether or not the threat of force is implied in any particular action. So making it a discussion about rape is a red herring, because every action she took had no possibility for consent.
While it's true we can't say with scientific certainty that Hemming didn't feel genuine attraction - or even may have been the instigator of a relationship - with Jefferson, we could make a reasonable deduction that a 14 year-old would not be romantically interested in a 43 year-old. (That said, we also can't say with scientific certainty that this relationship even occurred, but that ship's already sailed it appears.)
On the other hand, however, according to descriptions on monticello.org, Jefferson reportedly had perfect teeth, delicate features, an aristocratic gait, dressed in fine clothes, spoke amorous languages like Greek and Latin, wore French perfumes, and had graceful manners. So maybe he was an ageless sex object, like a Brad Pitt.
We can test this theory pretty easily, though. Here's a portrait of Jefferson made in London in 1786, when he would have been 43 -

Symmetry has many of the same mannerisms of a 14 year old girl so I'll pose the question to him: Symm, does this picture give you a boner? (If Symm says
no, then we can be reasonably certain Hemmings did not have a genuine attraction to Jefferson.)