patrickaa317 wrote:People are asking them to provide them something at no cost to cover their own irresponsibility.
No, people are being provided something at no cost because it is important for maintaining basic health and for preventing unwanted pregnancies. We can all agree that unwanted pregnancies are a bad thing. So this should not be complicated. Would you just prefer to tell people "stop doing that" and then stand back smugly as everyone ignores you, because you did your part? Stop injecting your personal ideology in the way of good policy. I know that this type of personal responsibility issue is important to the worldview of many conservatives, but those conservatives
have to make a choice: personal responsibility* and more abortions, or help from the government and fewer abortions. Pick your poison. You may not like that we can't have both, but that's
just how it is. Being a denier about it is helping no one.
*Of course, "personal responsibility" is still a partial red herring here. That would only be relevant if condoms were as reliable as the other methods of birth control.
And why are you trying to put this into a "shame the poor people"? Around 80% of abortions are due to reasons other than finances. "Not ready for responsbility" and "doesn't want life change" are two of the biggest.
Finances play a very significant role in much more than 20% of abortions. You're thinking of just the cases where a woman can literally not afford to raise a child. However, there are insidious financial impacts on women as a result of having children that aren't just related to whether they can objectively afford it. For example, they have to take time off from work, and in the US we have a pretty poor track record of both 1) having paid maternity leave and 2) making sure that taking time off to raise a child doesn't negatively impact a woman's career. When women say something like "I am just not ready to have a child yet," one of the factors in there is where she is in her career and whether she can afford to take a significant amount of time off.
Part of the reason we have this problem is that
men are shirking on their paternal responsibility and often leaving their wives with more than her fair share of the childraising duty, which negatively impacts her ability to have her own career. And when a woman gets unintentionally pregnant, who do you think bears the financial burden for the abortion most of the time?
And those that are due to finances, I would be willing to guess that most don't WANT to be able to afford it, not that they cannot afford it.
Yes, of course. Most women would much rather stay poor so that they can get free birth control and abortions from the state.
And don't go pulling the rape shit again, the whole insurance mandate is not simply to protect rape victims.
Of course not, but it's one of many reasons why we can't just say "condoms tho" and be done.