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2dimes wrote:Is there anyone farmiliar with Poligamy in the old testament? I don't see how it was managed by the Hebrews. When did it stop?

I can answer this 2 ways, both related.

Anthropologically, polygamy makes sense when there is a high mortality rate for boys and men. Historically, boys are more fragile and add in war, dangers of hunting/defense...etc and polygamy was important.

In the Bible, I believe it came down to dictates from God. Polygamy became a problem, causing jealousy, etc. and so was proscribed. Some groups maintain it never was really prohibited.

I have to go now, but can look into it more if no one else answers
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GabonX wrote:The two things are comparable. If you want to live in a polygamist or homosexual relationship, you're free to do so.

That said, you shouldn't expect everyone to view your lifestyle choice favorably and you're not automatically entitled to government accommodations..


But WHY no entitlement to government accomodations? Why are homosexuals not granted the same rights as heterosexuals?

Homosexuals should have the same rights as everyone else in our society, and they do.


No, they quite clearly do not. A heterosexual who is in a legally committed relationship (i.e. marriage) has rights over property and such that a homosexual has no ability to have, given that there is no way for them to enter into a legally committed relationship (it doesn't need to be called marriage, if that term bothers you). This causes serious injustices.
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2dimes wrote:I don't think the issue with hospital visitation of loved ones can be addressed for certain player.

The time frame in that one case where the lesbian was rejected from seeing her partner could have happened with a legitimate legal marriage. By the time she had sent for the documents etc. I think it could and most likely would have went pretty much the same way. Laws don't fix ignorance and cruelty.

Hospitals don't routinely demand documents from legal spouses. You say you are married ... you are married.

Its ONLY when the couple is homosexual that such documents become necessary.

That's kind of what I'm saying. You could easily lie to get in and see anyone if you gain the trust of the people that are in position to stop you. You might also be kept out by the same people if you have legitamate certification proving you should be allowed in but they decide to "accidently" not let you in. Power corrupts people, the cream rises to the top but in some cases so does the scum.
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2dimes wrote:
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2dimes wrote:I don't think the issue with hospital visitation of loved ones can be addressed for certain player.

The time frame in that one case where the lesbian was rejected from seeing her partner could have happened with a legitimate legal marriage. By the time she had sent for the documents etc. I think it could and most likely would have went pretty much the same way. Laws don't fix ignorance and cruelty.

Hospitals don't routinely demand documents from legal spouses. You say you are married ... you are married.

Its ONLY when the couple is homosexual that such documents become necessary.

That's kind of what I'm saying. You could easily lie to get in and see anyone if you gain the trust of the people that are in position to stop you. You might also be kept out by the same people if you have legitamate certification proving you should be allowed in but they decide to "accidently" not let you in. Power corrupts people, the cream rises to the top but in some cases so does the scum.


Except you are talking exceptions and possibilities in extreme situations --corrupt people acting like total jerks.

I am referring to standard hospital practice. In basic hospital practice, people who are heterosexual are usually given basic access to loved ones. Homosexuals are not routinely given that right in many areas. Even in the Florida case posted before, there is a real question whether that person has a true legal recourse. It was not right, but the hospital's actions might well have been perfectly legal. The same would absolutely not be true if the couple were heterosexual.

I have worked in emergency situations where, for example, I had to present a living will. In one case, I knew there was one, but had not been told exactly where the document was. The emergency people had to deal with the person as if there were no directive until I could get ahold of the son to bring a copy of the directive.

I have never been around a car accident where people were required to show proof that they were married. If it was required, a simple driver's license was enough. I have seen all other people denied access.
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They are definitely legal morally. You raise some interesting points on the issues with putting things into law. This isn't a reason to be against it, but it definitely would be a lot harder to legislate.
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Well the next issue we're ignoring here is the fact that here and I would think the rest of Canada you can pretty much walk in to most hospital rooms if you behave yourself.

If you were homosexual that wouldn't even come up as a factor in coversation let alone keep you out of your significant other's room. In the case of an ICU where it's restricted to immedeate family you would be considered as such by being the gay person's live in companion. When I was 15 I visited a friend in ICU I behaved myself and there was no issue though I was not his family.

There's rules here restricting people from coming to visit seriously ill people but they're pretty loose. If you're an obvious problem the rule gets cited to shoo you out.
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Just a thank you from someone who has read thru this so far...given the amount 0f jerks on CC I applaud all contributors efforts to add to this in an intelligent and constructive manner...had never really thought of CC as a place to hear rational debate...thanks
For what it's worth most laws relating to same sex relationships have been overhauled within the past 12 mnths here in Oz giving all partnered access to most of the same rights/priveleges/obligations ...society here is still baulking at the term marriage tho...I'm pretty much in agreement...marriage means one thing +/- and I feel equal but different should be applied to same sex couple terminology ratherthan bickeringing over the terminology of an equal but different union of individuals...
ASs to polygamy, this country does not have any "organized religion" history of it so it's never been a "state-recognized" problem as such...if it's occurring tho it does not receive state blessing in welfare payments/free health care cards etc...
Interestingly. the indigenous inhabitants of oz were a matriarchial society and biological fathers had little sway over one let alone many "wives"...the mothers brothers were responsible for childrens upbringing...varying number of "wives" is only differing views of a partiarchial society...
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Addressing pimpdave's comments:

Polygamy does not necessarily lend itself to violence, rape, statutory rape, or child abuse. The latest polygamy issue that was plastered on the news involved these things, but polygamy does not necessarily lend itself to these things. That seems to be ingorant bias on your part. It's like if I said, "black people in inner cities are prone to being in gangs and using drugs."

Addressing Player's comments:

The United States Constitution protects freedom of religion, yes? There is a religion (Mormons) that used to practice polygamy as part of their religion. Therefore, polygamy as part of the Mormon religion should be protected. That's the Constitutional argument.
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thegreekdog wrote:Addressing pimpdave's comments:

Polygamy does not necessarily lend itself to violence, rape, statutory rape, or child abuse. The latest polygamy issue that was plastered on the news involved these things, but polygamy does not necessarily lend itself to these things. That seems to be ingorant bias on your part. It's like if I said, "black people in inner cities are prone to being in gangs and using drugs."

No, I actually raised the same issues and it was based upon anthropology classes and discussions in college/ various writings in journals and so forth.

The black thing is absolutely tied to poverty and oppression. There is no direct link to being black and being in a gang or on drugs independent of those other factors.

Polygamy, which is/has been widely practiced (and therefore studied heavily), by contrast does institute some specific factors into society. Specifically, you limit the number of men who have "access" to women. This is why polygamy often arises in situations where men have high mortality -- in warrior societies, for example. However, it also becomes a self-perpetuating issue. Unattached men need things to do, things to keep them occupied. Without getting into the whole athropologic/sociologic arguments, the short of it is that if you have a lot of unattached men, you are more likely to have violence and war. (and vice-versa).

Warren Jeffs was an abhorration. Certainly, he took things to an extreme. However, even in more "normal" polygamist societies, you do see these tendencies. Its just that those societies don't necessarily see these things as "problems".

Anyway, this is an anthropologic/sociological argument. Those are not my fields, so I am not going to argue it further. However, I did want to point out that these are studied and recognized phenomena, not simply cooincidental associations.

thegreekdog wrote:Addressing Player's comments:

The United States Constitution protects freedom of religion, yes? There is a religion (Mormons) that used to practice polygamy as part of their religion. Therefore, polygamy as part of the Mormon religion should be protected. That's the Constitutional argument.


First, let's clarify that most LDS members do not believe in or practice true polygamy any longer. Some groups within the church, many not officially recognized by the larger church, do. Also, there are other religious groups (I know of at least one African group, for example) that support polygamy.

The freedom of religion stops when it causes harm to others. Homosexuality does not cause harm, (for Jay's benefit, while swaying someone from their religion is certainly harmful as far as the religion/church are concerned, it is not as far as the government is concerned. In fact, the ability to change one's religion is protected) . Although I am certainly not going to say the harm feared from polygamy is in any way close to things like murder or theft or rape. None-the less, though minor, the question of harm is real. At least, there is far more reason to see those issues as real than to see homosexuality fears as real. Polygamists, for example really do have a LOT more kids than others. The effect on single young men is harmful to them.

Whether the harm is great enough to justify proscribing the actions is another question. So far, society has declared it is...at least when it comes to any kind of legal recognition. That might change.

Society used to see homosexuality as harmful, but now does not. Maybe a similar decision needs to come for polygamy, but as of yet... we are not there.

Above all else, legalizing homosexuality would not require huge bodies of law to change, not really. Recognizing Polygamy would provide a lot more purely practical issues that would need to be resolved.
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Freedom of religion is trumped when there is a compelling state interest in the non-practice of that religion. It's not just because it harms others. Frankly, the reason that a law prohibiting the slaughtering of animals for religious purposes may be constitutional is because the religion in question isn't traditional Christinaity, Judaism, or Islam. But, I digress.

The point I'm trying to make, which you've made for me nicely, is that there is a stigma attached by you (and others) to polygamy. Some people attach similar stigmas (wrongly in my opinion) to homosexuality as well, and the Supreme Court agreed with those stigmas in the past. If you read some of the legal discussions around laws against homosexual sex, you'll find some "dangers to society" and "harmful to people" arguments in there as well. It's hypocritical to ignore the past transgressions of our society with respect to homosexuality while at the same time trangressing yourself against something like polygamy. That's why I liken those two things together here.
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thegreekdog wrote:Freedom of religion is trumped when there is a compelling state interest in the non-practice of that religion. It's not just because it harms others. Frankly, the reason that a law prohibiting the slaughtering of animals for religious purposes may be constitutional is because the religion in question isn't traditional Christinaity, Judaism, or Islam. But, I digress.

The point I'm trying to make, which you've made for me nicely, is that there is a stigma attached by you (and others) to polygamy. Some people attach similar stigmas (wrongly in my opinion) to homosexuality as well, and the Supreme Court agreed with those stigmas in the past. If you read some of the legal discussions around laws against homosexual sex, you'll find some "dangers to society" and "harmful to people" arguments in there as well. It's hypocritical to ignore the past transgressions of our society with respect to homosexuality while at the same time trangressing yourself against something like polygamy. That's why I liken those two things together here.


Regarding the slaughter of animal, you are correct and actually, it is becoming legal in many areas for that reason. The question of cruelty remains. Sangria is one thing, Satanism something else..

Basically, it comes down to does it cause others harm or not. The issue of harm does trump even religion. This is why things like child sacrafice are proscribed. Child abuse is prosecutable, though the views on what constitutes abuse keep changing.

The difference between those who still, today, assert that homosexuality causes harm and those who assert that polygamy causes harm is academics. Those who try to show homosexuality cause harm basically see homosexuality itself as a harmful activity. In essence, the harm is the spreading of that "disease". Polygamy, does certainly have that component. However, there are also academically documented trends that have to do with polygamy that are harmful to society, apart from the polygamy itself.

You don't have to agree. I am not an expert in that field and am really not sure what I truly think on the matter (that is, is polygamy harmful or not?). You asserted that there was no reason to distiguish and I was just saying that the issues differ for various reasons.
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The issues are different. I just think the legal arguments in favor of polygamy outweigh those in favor of gay marriage for the reasons I've stated in this and other threads. In other words, I'm not certain how gay marriage will be legalized, but I think an anti-gay marriage bill (or a law providing that marriage is between a man and a woman) would pass Constitutional muster simply because I don't think there is a good Constitutional argument in favor of gay marriage. I think there is a good Constitutional argument in favor of polygamy (though that has failed in the past).
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thegreekdog, maybe it seems to be ignorant bias, but that's it. It just seems that way because something inside you doesn't want to confront the reality of the issue, and if you look at the history of polygyny, you see the same pattern of violence come up again and again.

Also, regarding the crime, etc of the inner city, that has way more to do with poverty than anything having to do with race. And guess what, when you look at the cultural effect of poverty throughout history, you see the same pattern of crime cropping up, regardless of skin pigmentation, religion, etc.

(Player already mentioned it, and a chapter in Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell does a good job of explaining the problem of poverty in impeding success and how things like KIPP have made great strides in ending the cycle by merely being honest about cultural differences -- and the cultural differences here aren't between "black and white", but between poor, middle class, and wealthy -- one of the best case studies in the book describes middle class parenting and working class parenting, and only at the end is it revealed that the middle class family is black and the poor one is white. Once again demonstrating that race is an artificial classification and reinforcing the notion that behavior is not.)

Just like with polygyny. I have great respect for many Mormons. I don't judge modern day Mormons by the history of their church same as I don't judge other religions by the history of their churches (or temples, etc).

However, it would be foolish to deny that polygyny now is any different from polygyny then just as it would be foolish to deny that human nature now is any different from human nature then.

And that's the crucial bit of information upon which everything turns. I'm talking about behavior. Greekdog, you're talking about church. As long as you keep those two things separate, we'll be able to communicate our ideas and perhaps reach a consensus. The second you start blending the two, however, it gets mired in the whole "religious intolerance" thing.

So let's just not talk about the crimes of Joseph Smith and Brigham Young in the context of religion, because we'll never agree on that. Mormons are raised with the religious belief that their religion's founders were holy men who were persecuted for no reason.

As a student of history, I have a different perspective. I see a religion that enjoyed kidnapping, raping and murdering in order to fulfill some bizarre sex addiction and covered it up with the faux outre displays of 'morality' like abstaining from drink or bad words. The societies that were preyed upon by the group (how would you feel if your daughter was kidnapped and forced into a marriage, i.e. raped daily?) had good reason to not want them around. If the Mormons had just stopped the behavior of polygyny instead of using a persecution complex to explain it away, they may never have emigrated to Utah in the first place. They probably would have found a way to coexist just like every other religion that doesn't destabilize society eventually does in this nation.

I'm not attacking Mormons here. Don't take it that way. I'm attacking polygyny, which is a practice that damages society and thus cannot be legal, even in a pluralistic society. It only ever manages to flourish in a very restrictive and fundamentalist bubble; obviously because it requires the exclusion of much of the male population and the subjugation of women.

Again, I have nothing against Mormons or the Church of Latter-Day Saints as it exists today. Do not take honesty about history as a tacit condemnation of a religion or it's adherents as it exists in the modern day. At the same time though, let's not deceive ourselves about behavior and human nature.
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I won't argue with that, pimpdave, in the sense of comparing polygamy and homosexuality simply because I think the arguments against homosexuality are disgusting and I refuse to be associated with them.
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And my whole argument with homosexual marriage is that if it destabilizes society then it should not be legal. There is no evidence I'm aware of to suggest that it does (it's all speculation), while there is plenty of evidence of polygyny destabilizing society, across a variety of religions, territories, cultures and times.

Again, I'm not approaching any of it from a moral or religious perspective.

Also, I'm just as honest about the horrors in the history of the church I grew up in. Man is fallible. Everyone screws up. Don't buy into the lie that there are exceptions to the rule.
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pimpdave wrote:And my whole argument with homosexual marriage is that if it destabilizes society than it should not be legal. There is no evidence I'm aware of to suggest that it does (it's all speculation), while there is plenty of evidence of polygyny destabilizing society, across a variety of religions, territories, cultures and times.

Again, I'm not approaching any of it from a moral or religious perspective.

Also, I'm just as honest about the horrors in the history of the church I grew up in. Man is fallible. Everyone screws up. Don't buy into the lie that there are exceptions to the rule.


My only response to that is that there are laws in place against child abuse, rape, and statutory rape. If those laws are enforced and polygamy is permitted, I'm not sure we'd have a problem with polygamy. But, that's me. And I haven't studied anthropological or historical evidence.
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thegreekdog wrote:My only response to that is that there are laws in place against child abuse, rape, and statutory rape. If those laws are enforced and polygamy is permitted, I'm not sure we'd have a problem with polygamy. But, that's me. And I haven't studied anthropological or historical evidence.


It all hinges on that one-to-one ratio I mentioned in my first post in this thread.

I wish I remembered off the top of my head where I first read about it, but it was in an article about polygamy from an academic journal. The article covered polygamy's history, how it comes to exist or perpetuate itself and the huge social impact of the practice.

And I'm not saying that monogamous relationships don't have their instances of abuse in all its myriad forms, they absolutely do, but rather that with monogamous relationships, everyone in society has a chance at having a wife (or husband), and thus living a fulfilling life (which includes, as you surely know, sexy time).

If polygamy rules the land, then only a select few get to have wives (or husbands) and the rest are necessarily excluded and must be dealt with in order to perpetuate the practice.

In history, they are most commonly dealt with by turning the excluded into soldiers that are supposed to die (and the carrot at the end of the stick is even sex! But you only get it if you martyr yourself! I mean, come on... Plus, they're not even allowed to take care of themselves, if you know what I mean... Which helps up the aggression!) or they are removed from the pool of "applicants" by a powered "elite" (by execution or banishment -- both of which require a sequestered community that cannot co-exist with the rest of a pluralistic society such as in the USA).
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thegreekdog wrote:
pimpdave wrote:And my whole argument with homosexual marriage is that if it destabilizes society than it should not be legal. There is no evidence I'm aware of to suggest that it does (it's all speculation), while there is plenty of evidence of polygyny destabilizing society, across a variety of religions, territories, cultures and times.

Again, I'm not approaching any of it from a moral or religious perspective.

Also, I'm just as honest about the horrors in the history of the church I grew up in. Man is fallible. Everyone screws up. Don't buy into the lie that there are exceptions to the rule.


My only response to that is that there are laws in place against child abuse, rape, and statutory rape. If those laws are enforced and polygamy is permitted, I'm not sure we'd have a problem with polygamy. But, that's me. And I haven't studied anthropological or historical evidence.

Pimpdave went into this more, but issues of child abuse, rape and statuatory rape are more extreme aberrations. However, they are not the only problems.

Ironically, your mention of gangs and so forth brings in another. I am definitely going on a limb here, because it is way outside my field and not something I necessarily believe, but I have heard arguments tying heavy gang violance with rules that made marriages in poor folks harder (welfare is geared toward single parents) and a tendency to be "promiscuous".. have multiple partners (though not marriage). That is, one feed the other, which feeds the other. One major way to curb gang violence is to bring in fatherhood skills. Fathers who are more connected to their kids are less likely to make stupid decisions. Their kids, in turn are less likely to make stupid decisions. Nothing is perfect, but it has proven successful.

Now, polygamist societies here in the US are mostly not violent. and, while some do practice child marriage, we have already excluded those as wrong. Still, in each of these you have issues of what to do with the unattached males. They often get "shoved out" in various ways.. or are sent to work, etc. in a kind of "second class" male status. While the societies themselves might not be violent, the kids who leave these groups, even the "sane" ones, have problems. (

Also, polygamy has many variations anthropologically. I think someone mentioned a society where children are raised more by their mother's brothers than the father, etc. The dynamics would differ in each of those societies. However, the tendency to more war, looser father (or father figure) -child relationships, children that are not treated equally, etc are found wherever there is polygamy, apart from the other issues. That prevasiveness alone tends to indicate there is something inherent there in polygamy. At least, that is the academic argument. Whether it is wrong or right is another issue.
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Tried to Google, all I found were mentions of books and non-academic articles. One from reason.com voiced more or less the same arguments above, but did not have academic citations or anything.

Ultimately, this is yet one more issue about which there is bound to be debate. However, while homosexuality is absolutely being decided now, I think polygamy won't be close to accepted for some time.
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I would think, from a layperson standpoint, for the most part a two-parent household is more likely to have "successful" children than a one person household. I have seen, from my own experience, examples of one-parent households where the children succeed and two-parent households where the children are not as successful. I wonder what a multiple parent household shows (statistic-wise).
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thegreekdog wrote:I would think, from a layperson standpoint, for the most part a two-parent household is more likely to have "successful" children than a one person household. I have seen, from my own experience, examples of one-parent households where the children succeed and two-parent households where the children are not as successful. I wonder what a multiple parent household shows (statistic-wise).

The results may be inaccurate unless you could filter out those polygamists who contain their children in compounds or otherwise control their lives, as well as rape and incest.
Those situations could not be compared with a family that was a little more comparable to a family like the one in HBO's "Big Love".
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thegreekdog wrote:Addressing pimpdave's comments:

Polygamy does not necessarily lend itself to violence, rape, statutory rape, or child abuse. The latest polygamy issue that was plastered on the news involved these things, but polygamy does not necessarily lend itself to these things. That seems to be ingorant bias on your part. It's like if I said, "black people in inner cities are prone to being in gangs and using drugs."


But...they are prone to that....
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Snorri1234 wrote:
thegreekdog wrote:Addressing pimpdave's comments:

Polygamy does not necessarily lend itself to violence, rape, statutory rape, or child abuse. The latest polygamy issue that was plastered on the news involved these things, but polygamy does not necessarily lend itself to these things. That seems to be ingorant bias on your part. It's like if I said, "black people in inner cities are prone to being in gangs and using drugs."


But...they are prone to that....


Dude... a lot of groups are prone to a lot of things. Doesn't mean we need to make it illegal.
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Re: Are polygamy and Homosexuality "equal" legally/morally

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thegreekdog wrote:
Snorri1234 wrote:
thegreekdog wrote:Addressing pimpdave's comments:

Polygamy does not necessarily lend itself to violence, rape, statutory rape, or child abuse. The latest polygamy issue that was plastered on the news involved these things, but polygamy does not necessarily lend itself to these things. That seems to be ingorant bias on your part. It's like if I said, "black people in inner cities are prone to being in gangs and using drugs."


But...they are prone to that....


Dude... a lot of groups are prone to a lot of things. Doesn't mean we need to make it illegal.


What...are you saying that gangbanging and selling drugs shouldn't be illegal? Or am I just confused?
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