Help Please!! (THANKS FOR THE HELP I POSTED THE FINAL TRACKS

danodukebb · Post by **danodukebb** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 9:20 am

So, Saturday morning, a little less than 45 hours from now I will be moving away from my town and going to college...
In doing this, this means me and my girlfriend are going to break up and it is going to be the most painful thing that ever has happened to me...

So I am trying to put together a cd of songs she can have to remember me for, I'm looking for stuff thats kinda slow, sad, not all of them sad but still some sad ones

Heres what songs I have that i MIGHT use already

There Is- Boxcar Racer
Going away to college- Blink-182
Lost without you- Blink-182
First Day of my Life- Bright Eyes

please please please help this lovesick kid out and get some good songs that I cant think of...

XenHu · Post by **XenHu** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 9:25 am

Since your breaking up, don't you think it would be easier on her emotions if she didn't have anything to remember you by? If you love her, you'll want her to be able to move on.

-X

sam_levi_11 · Post by **sam_levi_11** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 9:25 am

i can see u like blink 182 and their offshoots like boxcar lol.

keeping with blink 182 why not "ill miss you" and "not now" maybe even "im lost without you".

ill think of non blink 182 tracks as well

sam_levi_11 · Post by **sam_levi_11** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 9:27 am

walk away by funeral for a freind

true love by madina lake(at bits its quite grungey- dunno if ur into that)

danodukebb · Post by **danodukebb** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 9:27 am

XenHu wrote:Since your breaking up, don't you think it would be easier on her emotions if she didn't have anything to remember you by? If you love her, you'll want her to be able to move on.

-X

you dont understand sir, we've had a very confusing and eventful long relationship...its gonna be a while until either of us can move on, but we thought our best bet would be to break up while im at college...but it sucks, because im so in love with her and it sucks knowing that friday night will be the last time were really together for a long long long time...

sam_levi_11 · Post by **sam_levi_11** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 9:31 am

oh man i know so many they keep coming

demolition lovers by mcr(b4 they turned all "oh lets tell a story and only have 4 tracks that are good on a whole album")

sam_levi_11 · Post by **sam_levi_11** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 9:32 am

i could die for you- r.h. chilli peppers
sometime su cant make it on your own- u2
a man and a woman- u2

yes i am infact checking my ipod lol but im ignoring unhappy emo songs for u

XenHu · Post by **XenHu** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 9:34 am

danodukebb wrote:
XenHu wrote:Since your breaking up, don't you think it would be easier on her emotions if she didn't have anything to remember you by? If you love her, you'll want her to be able to move on.

-X

you dont understand sir, we've had a very confusing and eventful long relationship...its gonna be a while until either of us can move on, but we thought our best bet would be to break up while im at college...but it sucks, because im so in love with her and it sucks knowing that friday night will be the last time were really together for a long long long time...

Yes, I do understand. And you know what would suck even more? Dwelling on a realtionship that is going to end. And 'end' is normally synonymous with 'over'. Yes, it may 'suck' that Friday will be the last time you are together, but it shouldn't be; 'the last time we're together for a long long long time'. If you break up, there shouldn't be the little teaser at the end saying; 'Oh, he might come back'. Even if you were to resume the realtionship, waiting until you are finished collage is certainly asking a lot of the girl. Don't you think?

Look, perhaps it will be hard for the both of you, but I don't think giving her a CD full of sad songs is going to help, just hinder.

Grieving affects all states of your health. You wouldn't want her to become un-healthy due to a long-term grievance, would you?

-X

happy2seeyou · Post by **happy2seeyou** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 9:41 am

There are a bunch of R&B songs you could use I bet. Unfortunately I have to leave so I cannot look any up.

danodukebb · Post by **danodukebb** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 9:41 am

sam, i said some sad emo songs are okay, i enjoy a lot of that music like mcr, aiden, blah blah blah the list goes on and on, i just want some sad ones though

danodukebb · Post by **danodukebb** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 9:43 am

XenHu wrote:
danodukebb wrote:
XenHu wrote:Since your breaking up, don't you think it would be easier on her emotions if she didn't have anything to remember you by? If you love her, you'll want her to be able to move on.

-X

you dont understand sir, we've had a very confusing and eventful long relationship...its gonna be a while until either of us can move on, but we thought our best bet would be to break up while im at college...but it sucks, because im so in love with her and it sucks knowing that friday night will be the last time were really together for a long long long time...

Yes, I do understand. And you know what would suck even more? Dwelling on a realtionship that is going to end. And 'end' is normally synonymous with 'over'. Yes, it may 'suck' that Friday will be the last time you are together, but it shouldn't be; 'the last time we're together for a long long long time'. If you break up, there shouldn't be the little teaser at the end saying; 'Oh, he might come back'. Even if you were to resume the realtionship, waiting until you are finished collage is certainly asking a lot of the girl. Don't you think?

Look, perhaps it will be hard for the both of you, but I don't think giving her a CD full of sad songs is going to help, just hinder.

Grieving affects all states of your health. You wouldn't want her to become un-healthy due to a long-term grievance, would you?

-X

its going to happen anyways, i know her, and were not saying that theres a possibility of it happening, by the fact i wont be with her for a long long time i meant i wont be seing her for a while...i doubt were ever going to start something again, and its going to be plenty painful enough and i dont like how your going about trying to get my not to do this when ive put a lot of thought and consideration into this...it means a lot to me that she knows just how much im going to be missing her

XenHu · Post by **XenHu** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 9:47 am

danodukebb wrote:
XenHu wrote:
danodukebb wrote:
XenHu wrote:Since your breaking up, don't you think it would be easier on her emotions if she didn't have anything to remember you by? If you love her, you'll want her to be able to move on.

-X

you dont understand sir, we've had a very confusing and eventful long relationship...its gonna be a while until either of us can move on, but we thought our best bet would be to break up while im at college...but it sucks, because im so in love with her and it sucks knowing that friday night will be the last time were really together for a long long long time...

Yes, I do understand. And you know what would suck even more? Dwelling on a realtionship that is going to end. And 'end' is normally synonymous with 'over'. Yes, it may 'suck' that Friday will be the last time you are together, but it shouldn't be; 'the last time we're together for a long long long time'. If you break up, there shouldn't be the little teaser at the end saying; 'Oh, he might come back'. Even if you were to resume the realtionship, waiting until you are finished collage is certainly asking a lot of the girl. Don't you think?

Look, perhaps it will be hard for the both of you, but I don't think giving her a CD full of sad songs is going to help, just hinder.

Grieving affects all states of your health. You wouldn't want her to become un-healthy due to a long-term grievance, would you?

-X

its going to happen anyways, i know her, and were not saying that theres a possibility of it happening, by the fact i wont be with her for a long long time i meant i wont be seing her for a while...i doubt were ever going to start something again, and its going to be plenty painful enough and i dont like how your going about trying to get my not to do this when ive put a lot of thought and consideration into this...it means a lot to me that she knows just how much im going to be missing her

I'm not trying to get you not to do what you think is right. Ultimately, the choice is your to make, not mine. I just thought that, since you were asking for help, I would give you my opinion.

By all means, I have gone through, and will continue to go through what you are going through now. Don't think I don't understand.

If you think that this is what's best for your realtionship, then so be it.

Good luck,

-X

glide · Post by **glide** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 9:48 am

I'm a musician, and know many songs. I also have had many break-ups, and know how you feel. The song that will always mean the most to me in these situations is probably30 years old, but trust me, it fits......if you've never listened to the lyrics.....please look it up: It's by Percy Sledge, and it is called: When a Man Loves a Woman.
Good luck with the future. :wink:

static_ice · Post by **static_ice** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 7:03 pm

do what Ferris Buehler did [size=0]or was implied to do[/size] he was a senior in high school and his girlfriend was a junior, so his solution was to marry her :lol:

okay...sad songs...

I never told you what I do for a living - My Chemical Romance
Interlude - My Chemical Romance (Three Cheers album)
When we begin to steal - ...And you will know us by the trail of dead
Novena without faith - ...And you will know us by the trail of dead
In a win, win situation - Emery
Everything - Limp Bizkit
Pendulous Skin - Mastodon
Don't Leave Me Now - Pink Floyd
Hey You - Pink Floyd
Shine on you Crazy Diamond - Pink Floyd (as a last song maybe for something positive

)
Disconnect - She wants Revenge
Killing Time - She wants Revenge
Lonely Day - System of a down (maybe a little too cliche...)
Question! - System of a down
Lost in Hollywood - System of a down
Chop Suey! - System of a down
Spiders - System of a down
Obstacle 1 - Interpol
Slow Hands - Interpol
Say hello to the angels - Interpol
Obstacle 2 - Interpol
Stella was a diver and she was always down - Interpol
Roland - Interpol
The New - Interpol
Untitled - Interpol
I will follow you into the dark - Death cab for cutie (personally I don't like it but she might)
At Least That's What You Said - Wilco
You can't go home again - DJ Shadow
Mongrel meets his maker - DJ Shadow
Six Days - DJ Shadow
Giving up the Ghost - DJ Shadow

note: a lot of these songs are instrumentals, interludes, openings songs, or closings songs on their album, they tend to be more meaningful at least to me...

I hope my list didn't scare you into ignoring the whole thing

unriggable · Post by **unriggable** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 7:05 pm

Jambi-Tool

Radioblogclub.com to test some recommended songs by the way.

J-Duds · Post by **J-Duds** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 8:05 pm

Look to the Sky By System S.F. feat. Anna
Heartbeatz By DJ Pulse

They aren't exactly slow, but they're probably close to the theme/mood you're looking for. Maybe. Even if its not, they're both still good songs.

sam_levi_11 · Post by **sam_levi_11** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 9:23 pm

static_ice wrote:do what Ferris Buehler did [size=0]or was implied to do[/size] he was a senior in high school and his friend was a junior, so his solution was to marry her

okay...sad songs...

I never told you what I do for a living - My Chemical Romance
Interlude - My Chemical Romance (Three Cheers album)

interlude is just depressingly haunted...and i never told you....man i love that song. it is great. my fav on the album.

Huckleberryhound · Post by **Huckleberryhound** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 9:26 pm

Tubthumping - by Chumbawumba

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_lJIjdajBww

danodukebb · Post by **danodukebb** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 9:36 pm

Thanks guys I'm putting it all together now...

man...this is going to be harder than i thought...i might start crying tomorrow night

i just spent all day with her and im not ready to give this one up...
i feel like such a girl right now haha

Huckleberryhound · Post by **Huckleberryhound** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 9:38 pm

danodukebb wrote:Thanks guys I'm putting it all together now...

man...this is going to be harder than i thought...i might start crying tomorrow night

i just spent all day with her and im not ready to give this one up...
i feel like such a girl right now haha

listen to my song now then...it's the right thing to do

UCAbears · Post by **UCAbears** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 9:39 pm

Heres one of the best ones you could get in my opinion.

Until the day I die - Story of the year

great song man.

danodukebb · Post by **danodukebb** » Thu Aug 16, 2007 11:31 pm

oh damn that is a good one that i overlooked...i have it too

oh well

danodukebb · Post by **danodukebb** » Fri Aug 17, 2007 10:34 am

Final CD Listing

1. Going Away to College- Blink-182
2. First Day of My Life- Bright Eyes
3. Sometimes You Can't Make it on your own- U2
4. There Is- Boxcar Racer
5. Your Guardian Angel- The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
6. Wherever you Will Go- The Calling
7. I'm Lost Without You- Blink-182
8. Blind- Lifehouse
9. Demolition Lovers- MCR
10. Miss Misery- Elliot Smith
11. Walk Away- Funeral For A Friend
12. Don't You Forget About Me- Simple Minds
13. In My Life- The Beatles
14. I Will Follow You Into The Dark- Death Cab for Cutie
15. Better When We're Together- Jack Johnson
16. Shadow of the Day- Linkin Park (not particularly a sad one but one that we sing to all the time so it makes sense)

Thanks for all the help, I really think she's going to like it...

sam_levi_11 · Post by **sam_levi_11** » Fri Aug 17, 2007 11:00 am

good tracks...i like quite a lot of them and glad i could contribute 4 tracks

Vincent M · Post by **Vincent M** » Fri Aug 17, 2007 11:11 am

Sigur Ros

Most beautiful band in the world